Sunday, May 31, 2026

May 31, 2026

 

Dear everyone,

It’s just a couple of days since I finished posting the Kenyan trip diary, but meanwhile two weeks have passed since our return.  The most important thing happening lately is the coordinated announcement of Wes accepting a post doc in Zurich, and the subsequent decision for Wes and Nicola to take on the bond of matrimony (otherwise Nikki would have to apply for a visa as Wes’s concubine [I couldn’t believe it either]).  So, we have a wedding in Virginia in two weeks, and one in Eugene two weeks later – just a month from now.

Otherwise, things are pretty placid here.  I had to renew my global entry card as well as my passport.  I got new ones within two weeks! 

Last weekend we were visited by Jasper and Vivian.  We went to H-Mart, where I was indulged in purchasing a variety of Asian foods.  One was a cold pack for bibim naengymeon that was surprisingly good (I would get again), another for thin scorched barley rice cakes (nurungji) which is super hard, crunchy, and bland - - not even salty.  I think you are supposed to eat it in soup or make a porridge out if it.  I much prefer kolo! Afterwards, we had dinner at Alter Brewing.

Yesterday I was at a half-day aikido seminar at my home dojo with Bob Garza (the head of my dojo) and Lisa Tomoleoni, who runs a dojo at Crystal Lake.  Sensei Tomoleoni is a short woman who values practicality in her techniques, and she is not unwilling to take a fall or ‘lose’ to her ‘opponent’ in the quest for perfecting her art.  It was fun

Yesterday evening we went out to dinner with the Wallochs.  Jami was celebrating his 71st birthday.  We went to a new restaurant in Downers Grove called Everest Asian Fusion.  It’s basically three sets of fixed price menus that include a hot pot, sushi/sashimi and Korean barbeque.  The menu was a bit confusing, and the restaurant was a little too dark to see while using the in-table hibachi and it was noisy.  You order off of a tablet.  You are restricted to ordering 10 items at a time, and can only order at ten-minute intervals (and, despite being an ‘all you can eat’ restaurant, your ordering ability is restricted to about 90 minutes - - nevertheless, that is ample time to eat to stupefaction).  I think if we went again, we would do things a bit differently - - the hot pot was not that great, and really a bit of a filler, and the Japanese food was only ok.  Because we didn’t understand the menu sufficiently, we didn’t end up ordering much marinated meat until the end (and each meat order for barbeque is pretty small, so you would need to order multiples of any item if you are a party of four). They were sold out of all the desserts by the time we ended our meal. I think I prefer separate restaurants for each cuisine.

At home we watched the Ghost and the Darkness, as discussed in my letter, it was bad.  I also saw the Relic, a movie recommended to me by Anderson Feijo.  This is a jump scare thriller whose claim to fame is filmed (mostly) at the Field Museum. Mediocre at best. I should also add another movie I saw on the way to Kenya, Dust Bunny, which was a quirky horror movie that I liked.

Reading:  I just finished Isak Dinesen (Karen Blixen)’s memoir, Out of Africa.  It is well written and interesting if you can get past the condescending racism that was part of the 1930s milieu. There is a lot of description of the different major cultures she encountered – Maasai, Kikuyu, and Somali.  I plan of watching the movie with Meryl Streep now.

Margo’s Got Money Troubles – I was surprised by how much I liked this, although the main character is a bit ingenuous, on purpose, surely.

The American Plate  Libby O’Connell’s (she was on our Kenyan trip) funny and erudite history of the US through 100 different kinds of food.

Love, H.




we have a lot more peonies than this out now



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